Its design is frankly stunning (and we don’t use this word for

Viberator

The best vibrating cock rings are the sex toy definition of a win-win, bringing good vibes to everyone in the room. You get the constriction of a cock ring, which strengthens an erection and boosts your sensitivity. And then there are the vibrations, which can stimulate both your partner and you, potentially at the same time. A great way to get a partner involved in the experience is with a remote-controlled vibrator. This egg vibrator can be used both internally and externally and is waterproof and rechargeable. She says, “The different vibrations can be kind of confusing…You don’t need all those functions as a beginner.” Dr. Tara also recommends starting with a soft surface (like silicone) for its feel and ease of use.

Add some water-based lube to the tube, and you’ll have an experience that’s meant to simulate what I can only describe as a post-blow job handjob on steroids (thanks to the stroker’s six vibration patterns). In a nutshell, that’s the Maude Vibe, which is why it has been noted as a favorite of not just one, but two Mashable reporters. It only has one button to turn it on and off and sort through the three vibration speeds. Its design is frankly stunning (and we don’t use this word for just any old vibrator; this one was literally featured in the MoMA Design Store), and its simplicity makes it shine.

(In addition to, you know, your hand.) It seems like they would the natural addition to your sex life. As most vibrators are app-controlled, it’s easy to give your partner the ability to control them remotely—an excellent way to add new thrills to any long-distance relationship. As Carol Queen, sex educator and staff at Good Vibrations says, panty vibes can also be a smart assistive device for anyone who doesn’t have great hand strength or motor control. Nicely, panty vibrators work as external vibrators sans underwear, too, with various vibration patterns and strengths. The best panty vibrators (and vibrating panties) slide inside underwear or are built-in, making for delicious, hands-free partner play.

Whether you’re looking for a vibrator that can blend seamlessly with the decor of your bedroom or are just looking for a more out-of-the-ordinary device for your collection—you have options. The Crave Vesper is both of those things, with its long, sleek body that has multiple settings (including gentle and oscillating) for external use. “In addition to being easy-to-use vibrators, Vesper provides an aesthetic jewelry experience,” says Ti Chang, VP of Design and co-founder of Crave. If you like to engage in a little backdoor action, check out this beginner-friendly butt plug designed specifically for people with vulvas. It’s slim with an asymmetric base that won’t block the vaginal opening, and the curved tulip shape guides penises or toys toward the G-spot. Some are curved or have bulbous ends for G-spot stimulation , like the Lovehoney G-Slim G-Spot Vibrator ($20, Lovehoney).

German brand Fun Factory makes some of the best-engineered vibes on the market, which is why this rabbit is so damn good. Its ultra-powerful dual motors serve up deep, thrumming vibration to both the G-spot and the clit (or to the prostate and perineum, if used anally). The flexibility of its external arm allows it to move with you when you thrust the toy—and thrusting is a breeze with this vibe, because of its looped handle.

It’s not likely that one particular pattern will blow your mind more than the others, but some women may find that they have decently strong preferences. If you feel a little baffled about all the options, just stick with the constant vibration pattern. Smile Makers The Firefighter Intense Clitoral Vibrator is a uniquely-shaped clitoral vibrator extending the vibration to the labia for a broader stimulation.

This makes it a bit harder to clean, as you cannot submerge it, but you can easily wash the silicone cap. Autistic activist Ruby Stone emphasized in our interview that sensory-processing issues can cause certain sounds, textures, or other stimuli to feel extremely unpleasant. It may be preferable to handle the options in person, if possible, before selecting a toy to purchase. This suction vibrator provides diffuse, customizable sensations in a small, convenient size.

In addition to 14 speed and intensity settings, ‘climax control’ allows users to play around with the depth of suction, so you’re bound to find something that works for you. Before you purchase a sex toy, check that it’s body-safe (like all of our picks are). Single-use sex toys are “the most underrated option for first-time sex-toy owners,” according to one SELF sexual wellness writer.

According to Hot Octopuss, this toy has sold over two million units, and once you’ve felt the vibrations yourself, you’ll understand why. They’re super rumbly, meaning they’re low-pitched and go beyond surface-level for a fuller, more satisfying sensation. We also like that it’s compact and comes with its own travel pouch so you can bring the fun on the road with you.